Anonymous asked: Do you explore fetlife or are you mostly there to promote yourself? Just out of curiosity.
I created a FetLife account 12 months ago as a way to meet other like-minded, kinksters since I moved to Oregon. I’m a happy, comfortable introvert and find it easier to get to know people on Fet and skype before meeting at clubs and munches. I also enjoy using the site as a way to express and explore fetishes that, until now, I’ve had no way of talking about and no one to share them with.
Fetlife has become my safe haven for openly loving and perving without being judged for it and a place where I can find the answers to most of my kink-related questions.
I have a lot of friends on there simply because I accept all friend requests but I make the time to reply to all emails and comments every day.
I’m also an active member of about 20 groups at the moment.
Thank you Alan. ..and by “this saturday” he means tomorrow (or later tonight if you’re lucky) ~Kato xx